While online communities are vital, in-person disability community—gathering in physical spaces with other disabled people—provides unique connection, support, and power. This page covers finding local disability community, creating accessible gatherings, building in-person support networks, and why in-person community matters.
This page recognizes that not all disabled people can participate in in-person community (homebound, rural, no accessible transportation, etc.) and that both online and in-person community are valuable.
Content note: This page discusses accessibility barriers, isolation, and building community with people different from yourself. It discusses accessibility conflicts and how to navigate them.
¶ Historical Context and Who Built This
Disabled people have always gathered together. Early disability rights organizing happened in person—in community centers, churches, homes, and parks. The 504 Sit-In, Deaf culture gatherings, disability pride events—these were physical, embodied resistance and connection.
Community care has long roots: disabled people supporting each other, organizing together, building the structures that allow us to survive and thrive. In-person community is where we've built power.
Different from online:
- Physical presence and embodied connection
- Shared physical space creates solidarity
- Ability to provide direct, in-person help
- Building local power and advocacy
- Creating infrastructure and structures
- Multigenerational connection
- Cultural and celebratory gatherings
Not replacement for online:
- Online connects across distance and isolation
- Online provides anonymity and safety
- Online allows connection despite transportation barriers
- Both needed, both valuable
In-person community only works with accessibility. Truly accessible gatherings require:
- Physical accessibility (ramps, bathrooms, elevators)
- Communication access (ASL, CART, captions)
- Cognitive accessibility (clear agendas, quiet spaces)
- Sensory accessibility (lighting, sound management, scent-free)
- Financial accessibility (free or low-cost events)
- Flexible participation (can come/leave as needed)
- Childcare and caregiver support
Types:
- Cross-disability organizations (serve all disabled people)
- Condition-specific organizations (one disability)
- Disability rights organizations (legal/advocacy)
- Peer support organizations (led by disabled people with lived experience)
- Service organizations (provide services)
Finding:
- Google search: "[your city] disability organizations"
- Disability Rights Education & Defense Fund (DREDF) has links to local orgs
- Disability specific organizations (search [disability name] + [your city])
- Community centers (often have disability programs)
- Hospitals or healthcare systems (often have patient support groups)
- Libraries (often host groups)
What to look for:
- Truly run by disabled people or at least disability-centered
- Free or low-cost events
- Accessible (ask about accessibility)
- Values match yours
- Community and peer support focus (not just services)
¶ Independent Groups and Meetups
Self-organized communities:
- Disability meetup groups (Meetup.com)
- Facebook groups organizing in-person
- Peer support groups (often free)
- Recreation groups for disabled people
- Art or creative groups
- Sports or adaptive exercise groups
Finding:
- Meetup.com: search disability-related groups in your area
- Facebook: search "[your disability] + [your city]"
- Word of mouth in disability community
- Library bulletin boards and websites
- Community centers
- Craigslist community section
¶ College and University Groups
Disability student organizations:
- Most colleges have disability student groups
- Open to students with disabilities
- Activities, support, advocacy
- Build skills and community
- Mentorship opportunities
Finding:
- Contact disability services office
- Student organization fair
- College website or student portal
- Ask other disabled students
- Ask disability services about active groups
Some primarily online communities organize local meetups:
- Reddit local communities with meetups
- Discord servers organizing in-person
- Facebook groups
- TikTok community organizing locally
- Virtual support groups that occasionally meet in person
Before announcing:
- Choose accessible location
- Plan timeline and agenda (accessibility is planning)
- Budget for accessibility features
- Think through sensory environment
- Plan for flexibility
Timeline and communication:
- Announce early with accessibility information
- Ask what people need (survey or open communication)
- Make changes based on feedback
- Confirm accessibility 48 hours before
- Have backup plans
Location considerations:
- Wheelchair accessible entrance (no steps, automatic doors, or assistance available)
- Accessible parking nearby or valet parking for disabled people
- Accessible bathrooms on same floor
- Elevator to all levels (if multi-story)
- Climate control (comfortable temperature)
- Adequate seating (even if activity involves standing)
- No overwhelming clutter or obstacles
- Wide pathways (wheelchairs, walkers, crutches need space)
Furniture and setup:
- Mix of standing and seating areas
- Tables at wheelchair-accessible height
- Chairs without arms (for wheelchair transfer)
- Mix of hard and soft seating
- Back support options
- Adequate space between seating
Accessibility statement:
- Include in all announcements
- "This event is wheelchair accessible"
- "ASL interpreter provided"
- "Parking available"
- "Childcare available"
- State what accessibility is provided
- Invite people to request additional accommodations
For deaf and hard of hearing:
- ASL interpreter (hire professional; budget accordingly)
- CART (Communication Access Realtime Translation) - more expensive but covers audio and speaking
- Captions on videos
- Written agenda/notes
- Verbal and written communication of information
- Consider video remote interpretation options
- Test technology beforehand
For blind and low vision:
- Audio description of visual content
- Materials in large print or braille
- Verbal description of space and layout
- Guide dog accommodation
- Accessible materials and handouts
- Descriptive language in verbal communication
For all:
- Clear audio (good speakers, no background noise)
- Microphones if large group
- Visual aids (slides, written information)
- Written agenda and minutes
- Clear communication of time and location changes
- Multiple ways to communicate (written, verbal, visual)
¶ Cognitive and Sensory Accessibility
Sensory environment:
- Lighting: avoid strobing, too bright, or too dim
- Sound: manage background noise, volume
- Scent: scent-free space (no perfume, air fresheners)
- Temperature: comfortable for variety of people
- Breaks: scheduled and flexible
- Clear information presented in multiple ways
Cognitive accessibility:
- Written agenda in advance
- Clear, plain language
- Structured format
- Announced changes before they happen
- Time for processing
- Quiet spaces for breaks
- Simple, organized materials
- Avoid overwhelming sensory or cognitive input
Cost:
- Free events or sliding scale
- Cover accessibility costs (don't pass to participants)
- Disability services budget in
- Fundraise or seek grants for accessibility
- Transportation assistance if possible
- Meal assistance if providing food
Hidden costs:
- Transportation (arrange accessible options if possible)
- Childcare (provide or reimburse)
- Medication or medical supplies
- Parking (free or validate)
- Technology (Zoom links if virtual option)
Access needs vary:
- People coming and leaving is okay
- Not requiring full attendance
- No forced participation (can observe)
- Virtual option if possible
- Online participation in addition to in-person
- Asynchronous participation when possible
- Caregiver attendance accepted
- Service animals welcome
Conflict reality:
- Different disabled people have different needs
- One person's access may conflict with another's
- This is normal and solvable
- Requires negotiation and problem-solving
Example conflicts:
- Fragrance sensitivity vs. people wanting to wear perfume
- Sound sensitivity vs. need for background music
- Light sensitivity vs. need for good lighting
- Seating proximity vs. personal space needs
Managing conflicts:
- Plan proactively (reduce conflicts through design)
- Have multiple sensory environments (quiet room, regular room)
- Acknowledge conflicts happen
- Problem-solve together with community
- Prioritize accessibility over convenience
- Some disabled people may not attend certain events; that's okay
Values:
- Everyone belongs
- Disabled leadership and decision-making
- Accessibility is non-negotiable
- Honoring complexity and difference
- Mutual aid and support
- Celebrating disability
- Resisting ableism together
What happens:
- Sharing resources and knowledge
- Supporting each other
- Organizing for change
- Celebrating milestones
- Processing ableism together
- Building power
- Having fun
- Creating culture
In-person:
- Someone struggles to get there; people help with transportation
- Someone can't afford event; group pays
- Someone having crisis; community shows up
- Someone exhausted; community takes tasks
- Building structures of mutual support
Practical:
- Potluck and shared meals
- Carpooling
- Childcare sharing
- Equipment sharing
- Advice and knowledge sharing
- Physical help when needed
- Emotional support
Community gatherings as celebration:
- Disability pride
- Cultural celebration
- Reclaiming disability
- Resistance to shame
- Friendship and joy
- Creating disabled culture
- Intergenerational connection
¶ Activities and Programming
What they provide:
- Sharing experiences with others
- Learning from peers
- Emotional support
- Problem-solving together
- Reduced isolation
- Ongoing community
Types:
- Disease-specific groups
- Cross-disability groups
- Crisis support groups
- Processing trauma/ableism groups
- Peer mentoring groups
- Parent groups
- Caregiver groups
Finding:
- Hospital or health provider groups
- Nonprofit disability organizations
- Online groups with local meetings
- Library-hosted
- Faith communities
- Mental health organizations
¶ Social and Recreation
Activities:
- Game nights
- Coffee meetups
- Movies or outings
- Potlucks
- Picnics
- Book clubs
- Creative workshops
- Sports and recreation
- Celebrations and holidays
Value:
- Building friendship and connection
- Fun and joy
- Reduced isolation
- Normal socializing
- Culture building
¶ Advocacy and Organizing
What disabled people do together:
- Organizing campaigns
- Direct action and protest
- Writing to politicians
- Building power
- Demanding change
- Research and documentation
- Political education
Why in-person:
- Face-to-face coordination
- Physical presence is powerful
- Building relationships strengthens organizing
- Collective decision-making
- Community accountability
¶ Education and Skills-Building
Workshops and trainings:
- Disability rights education
- Self-advocacy skills
- Benefits navigation
- Accessibility training
- Technology education
- Health education
- Job skills
Value:
- Practical skills
- Peer teaching (disabled people teaching disabled people)
- Shared knowledge
- Capacity building
- Preparation for independence
¶ Challenges and Solutions
Challenges:
- No accessible public transit
- Paratransit limited or inaccessible
- Can't drive
- Can't afford taxi/rideshare
- Rural isolation
- Distances too far
Solutions:
- Group provides transportation (van, volunteer drivers)
- Meet at accessible public transit location
- Virtual or hybrid option for those who can't attend
- Multiple meeting locations (reach different areas)
- Home visits or support for homebound people
- Carpooling network
Challenge:
- One person's access needs conflict with another's
Solutions:
- Multiple spaces (quiet room available)
- Staggered events (sometimes with fragrance, sometimes fragrance-free)
- Creative problem-solving
- Acknowledge not everyone can attend all events
- Planning with accessibility first
¶ Fatigue and Health Variability
Challenge:
- Disabled people can't always attend
- Health flares prevent participation
- Fatigue makes travel hard
Solutions:
- Virtual participation option
- Recorded meetings available later
- Flexible attendance (no required participation)
- Understanding and support when people miss
- Shorter or split events
- Scheduling with disabled people's patterns in mind
¶ Conflict and Difference
Challenge:
- Disabled people are diverse
- Conflicts between people happen
- Different approaches to disability
Solutions:
- Clear community values and agreements
- Restorative practices, not punishment
- Addressing conflict directly
- Making space for difference
- Accountability and growth
- Community support for addressing harm
¶ Isolation and Access
Challenge:
- Not all disabled people can access in-person community
- Homebound, rural, no transportation
- Some disabilities make gathering impossible
- Internet access varies
Solutions:
- Digital access and online community alongside in-person
- Home visits for homebound people
- Regular online meetings
- Multiple ways to participate
- Mailing lists and newsletters
- Phone check-ins
- Hybrid events
If no disability community exists in your area, you can start one.
1. Define purpose and community:
- Who is this for? (cross-disability, specific disability, age group, etc.)
- What's the purpose? (support, social, advocacy, education)
- Where will you meet? (location, frequency)
2. Build core group:
- Talk to other disabled people in your area
- Start small (3-5 core people)
- Divide responsibilities
- Meet and plan
3. Make it accessible:
- Choose accessible location
- Budget for accessibility (food, transportation, materials)
- Publicize accessibility clearly
- Ask what people need
4. Reach people:
- Flyers in accessible locations
- Social media
- Tell friends and ask them to spread word
- Connect with organizations that might promote
- Word of mouth
5. Sustain it:
- Regular meetings (builds reliability and trust)
- Shared leadership
- Feedback from participants
- Address accessibility issues
- Celebrate successes
- Keep improving
- Community organizing guides: Many exist online
- Disability organizations: Can advise on starting groups
- Online spaces: Disability communities can help
- Meetup.com: Platform for organizing local groups
- Facebook groups: Can organize events
- Library and community centers: May provide space
¶ Mentorship and Intergenerational Connection
Benefits:
- Younger disabled people see possibility and disabled adulthood
- Older disabled people pass knowledge and experience
- Building community across generations
- Breaking isolation
- Creating history and continuity
Formal programs:
- Some disability organizations have mentorship programs
- Schools sometimes have peer mentoring
- Professional associations
- Disability advocacy groups
Informal mentorship:
- Asking someone to mentor you
- Regular check-ins with experienced disabled person
- Peer support relationships
- Learning from elders in community
- Online mentorship
If you're an experienced disabled person:
- Young disabled people may seek your wisdom
- Sharing what you've learned is valuable
- Creating relationships across age
- Building future disability leaders
- Celebrating disabled possibility
¶ Global and Cultural Perspectives
Western model:
- Formal organizations
- Meetings and events
- Written materials
- Legal rights framework
- Often individualistic
Global South:
- Family and community care
- Informal gatherings
- Collective decision-making
- Intergenerational knowledge
- Celebration and culture
- Economic and survival support
Indigenous communities:
- Traditional knowledge and healing
- Collective responsibility
- Spiritual connection
- Land-based community
- Honoring disabled people's knowledge
Disabled communities can include:
- Race, ethnicity, and racism
- Gender and gender identity
- Sexual orientation
- Immigration status
- Class and poverty
- Colonialism and imperialism
- Language barriers
Creating truly inclusive spaces:
- Addressing power dynamics
- Including leadership from multiply-marginalized people
- Accessibility including interpretation and translation
- Understanding intersection of disabilities and oppressions
- Commitment to anti-racism and intersectionality
- Search: Look for existing groups online and in your area
- Reach out: Contact disability organizations
- Connect online first: Find online disability community
- Arrange meetup: Meet with one other person if possible
- Build gradually: Start small, grow over time
- Identify: What community do you want to contribute to?
- Connect: Reach out to organizers
- Ask: What help do they need?
- Start small: Commit to one task
- Build relationship: Show up consistently
- Assess: Is there community need?
- Connect: Find 2-3 others interested
- Plan: Where, when, for whom, for what purpose
- Make accessible: Plan accessibility
- Launch: Announce and start meeting regularly
- Meetup.com: Search disability groups in your area
- Facebook: Search "[disability] [your city]"
- Google: "[Your city] disability community" or "[disability name] support groups"
- 211.org (US): Search services by zip code
- DREDF: www.dredf.org - links to disability organizations by location
- Disability.gov: Resources by state and disability
- National organizations: Have chapter finders or meeting locators
- Hospital and healthcare systems: Often host support groups
- Mental health organizations: Have support groups
- Libraries and community centers: Host groups
- Online platforms: Zoom-based support groups accessible from anywhere
- Community organizing guides: Available online
- Disability organizations: Can advise on starting groups
- Meetup.com: Platform for organizing
- Facebook groups and events: Organize through social media
- 12 for Community: Organization supporting community building
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- Disabled people sharing in-person community experiences
- Information about local disability organizations and groups
- Accessibility planning and best practices
- Community organizing and mentorship stories
- Cultural and global perspectives on disability community
- Resources for finding and building disability community
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